i feel that it's not right to be making such decisions at the age i'm at. i'm too young and inexperienced to understand what is going on. i've never felt so lost and helpless in so long. my dad's been the hospital for almost a week now and it doesn't seem like he will be going home anytime soon. the best we could do is send him to a nursing home but sooner or later, we have to find solutions to pay for it. like most people, my dad didn't plan for the long term and ended up screwing himself over with the reverse mortgage. because of this, i have to go to lawyers and whatnot to figure out a plan. i was listening intently to my cousin explain to me the process and what i would need to do and it was just so overwhelming. i don't know all of these forms and what kind of information is important or not.
for now, i'm just trying to gather my thoughts and move on. i will figure something out...life tends to fall into place. regardless, i'm glad my dad is doing better but it's still hard to tell if his health will deteriorate further. scary stuff.
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I only know what that slightly feels. Although my dad is not as old as yours, all that black hair has gone to grey. Like your father, my parents have no retirement/long-term plan. I'm sure things will fall into place for ya.
your parents still have time! better tell them to get on it because most people put it off until it's too late.
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